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Wednesday, April 30, 2008

最近做了兩個夢.

一個是正在吃的一碗麵, 湯匙上一個殼類物件裡, 用筷子"撩"一下, 原來是隻大蟲, 準備爬出來時我便嚇醒了.

dreamstop分析:

Eating? Very interesting. If you dream about eating, it may simply mean you can't wait for breakfast, or... did you watch other people eat? This may symbolize you feeling like others have more material things than you. Look at what you ate in the dream for more clues.

Insects and bugs are, in general, annoying to most people and so in a dream they usually represent obstacles that you must overcome to reach your current goals. The good news is, if you manage to get rid of them or they aren't really bothering you, than this is a sign that will meet your obstacles with strength, and be able to overcome them. Insects can also represent excessive worry over certain things-- look to the other symbols to see what could be bugging you!

另一個夢.

晚上八時左右, 一個人在鬧市遊走. 不知道是什麼地方. 沒有人和我吃晚飯, 打電話給七友的保險界女強人, 她說可以和我吃, 但正和男友吃, 遲些找我. 納悶間一個人不知怎辦.

分析:

Well, dreams set at night are common as night is usually a symbol of your unconcious. If you're driving, walking, sailing or journeying anywhere at night, this is probably you journeying into the dark side of your personality. Many dreams that occur in a night may scare you-- you are facing a part of yourself that you usually keep buried. Look to other symbols in your dream for a more detailed picture, i.e. was their moonlight or stars in the night sky? How were you feeling during this dream? Were you frightened or were you peaceful? See dark for more.

To dream that you hear the voice of someone you know could foreshadow a something strange happening to that person. It depends on what tone they used when they spoke to you. Were they angry? This may mean they will be frustrated about a situation to come. Were they comforting? They may be asked to comfort someone in the future. To hear the voice of someone you love calling you may mean a separation due to misunderstandings. If the voice you hear is the voice of someone already dead in real life, then this may mean that you are about to commit a bad error in judgment and may want to listen to what they are saying. If you called someone on the telephone, then you must try to communicate better for the next few days.

看來是時候找保險界女強人吃個午餐了

幾句

You haven't got anything to dance about until you're over thirty-five anyway. ~ Bert Balladine
三張幾更應該要跳! :)

You don't stop dancing from growing old, you grow old from stopping to dance. ~ unknown
很有鼓舞作用!

Beginning dancer: knows nothing.
Intermediate dancer: knows everything; too good to dance with beginners.
Hotshot dancer: too good to dance with anyone.
Advanced dancer: Dances everything. Especially with beginners.
~ Richard Crum
的確好些專業舞者都愛和我們這些業餘的上課

Dance just gets more exciting the more you know about it, which is why you have to do it well at school so you can spend the rest of your life supporting your habit. Just don't plan to marry anyone who dislikes dancing; it'll probably win in the end! ~ Kay Teague
好些同學都說要工作啊, 因為這樣才有餘錢繼續跳舞! "so you can spend the rest of your life supporting your habit"多麼重要!

A man who dances has his choice of romances ~ unknown
我總愛浪漫

幾個poses

上了十課左右的瑜伽, 對我的low back很有幫助. 有數個poses有時也自行在家練習, 腸胃也有改善.

Double Leg Spinal Twist
-其實平日一直都愛做spinal twist, 因為腰位一直都有問題.

Pigeon Pose (laying)Lunge Pose (deep lunge on forearms)Waterfall - 感覺很舒服

還有好些poses都偶有練習, 不過忘了名稱.

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

Some blogthings...

What Your Feet Say About You:

You are pretty average in your expressiveness. You can express yourself well, but you don't always want to.

You are a somewhat passionate person. A few things get you very fired up, but you're usually pretty laid back.

You are an assertive person at times. You'll pull out all the stops to get what you want, if it's worth it.

You take a while to fall in love, but once you do, you stay pretty attached to your partner.

You are not easily frightened, but you have a few strong phobias.

You are very practical and down to earth. You're more concerned with action than thoughts.

You are a fairly hard worker, but you are also a little spoiled. You like indulge yourself every now and then.

You are not easily influenced by other people. You hold your ground and are true to your beliefs.


Your Personality at 35,000 Says...

Deep down, you prefer spending time alone to spending time with others. You enjoy thinking more than talking.

You don't spend much time thinking about your place in the world. You are who you are - and people can just deal with that!

Your gift is relating to other people. You don't hide from your own emotions, and you are good at drawing other people out.

You are inspired by what is possible. Real life is often too ordinary for you.

Your life has a lot of ups and downs, but things generally end up being pretty positive. It's one big emotional roller coaster, that's for certain.


What Your Taste in Chocolate Says About You

You are sophisticated, modern, and high class.

Your taste is refined, but you are not picky.

You are often the first to try something new.

You are down to earth and lovable.

A true friend, you're very tolerant and understanding.

In fact, your friends' biggest problem is that they don't like each other!

You love being by yourself and thinking. Developing your own theories and ideas is fun.

You feel lost when you're forced to be social. Being with other people can be lonely for you.

Dance Etiquette

這篇只是分享個人感受, 不是什麼社交舞的禮儀文章.

上芭蕾舞課不會有舞伴, 較少貼身或拖手的需要, 所以只求:

~ 同學們把頭髮梳好, 扎個髻, 不要只是梳馬尾(因曾有同學只梳馬尾, 卻跳到髮尾都全濕, 大動作或轉圈時便把汗水撥到其他人, 十分嘔心!)

~ 有時需要換鞋, 太大汗的, 曾有人坐在地上之後一地都是她的汗水, 又是駭人... 可否醒目一點自行抹淨呢?

有些舞蹈需要有舞伴, 其實不太喜歡和陌生人作舞伴, 尤其需要扶腰或拖手... 所以要求是多一點:

~ 有些女子不但大汗, 且有汗味, 更可能是難聞的體臭. 作其舞伴真的叫苦連天... 其實市面上那麼多止汗劑或deodorant, 為什麼不作好準備才上課呢? 要人家受著你的汗味, 真是可憐.

~ 我有潔癖, 所以要扶對方腰部或身體其他部位有時都頗麻煩... 有一次全手都是人家的汗水... 沮喪! 雖然我知道對方也不想, 唯有下課時立即用hand gel清潔, 然後去洗手間洗洗洗!

~ 很怕陌生人太過熱情. 第一次認識然後作舞伴, 一個微笑我已感到非常友善亦足夠. 最怕人家更衣時又不停"搭訕", 第一天問完我的名字又要問我住哪裡, 然後又打算一起下課同行離去, 救命!

~ 那天另一件令人不滿的是... 我跳男的, 對方跳女的. 你記著自己的部份, 我做好我的部份就是了, 那位麻煩又有汗味的舞伴真要命, 還要說我某舞步不對... 後來又發覺其實我是對的, 簡直想罵她一頓! 下次導師如果教要舞伴的舞, 可能要考慮立即離場... 除非對方是自己認識的好朋友 :)

剝光豬

哈哈哈!

Monday, April 28, 2008

對話

我: 隻匙羹咁嘅, 叫佢換過隻先...

媽: 有滾水呀呢度, "浪"吓得啦!

我: eee... 費事啦, "浪"都唔得呀...

媽: 有幾污糟吖, 都話有滾水咯...

我: 我點知係咪有人食過佢無洗到呀, 你睇, 紅豆沙嚟架! 哎呀...

媽: 點會係無洗吖...

姊: 你咪由得佢換囉, 有咩問題啫? 佢又無煩到你...

*****
我: 唉, 我頭先失憶喎... 咁跳完舞換衫啦, 有個lang妹煩到死, 第一日識又不停同我講嘢, 大佬換緊衫架嘛, 又問呢又問路, 嘈住哂, 又問我係咪坐地鐵, 嘩見佢入廁所即刻走人... 攪到我去到facial時先諗起係咪漏咗對鞋喺嗰度, 大佬, 成三百蚊架對(跳舞)鞋! .... .... ....

媽: 唉, 成鬼日都係咁... XXX XXX XXX

我: 我都未講完, 鬧咩啫宜家... 最後我都無漏到, 就係以為自己漏咗咋嘛, 又鬧!

******

點解啲阿媽老咗就咁um chum... :P

日記

是日去掃墓, 沒想到比"正清"更多人, 塞了一小時車. 中國人的習俗實在令人安慰, 扶老攜幼不怕逼車或走又鈄又遠的路, 這麼多人的拜山情景多年沒嘗過. 事後全身及頭髮都是煙味!

心情好, 買鞋; 心情唔好, 買鞋. 近日每有壞消息便買一對新鞋, 以作少少的安慰.

週日在LC買對鞋也要排隊.

一向穿37號半. 很怕正碼鞋. 37號有點迫, 38又稍微大. 但最後都是買38號加墊.

"恨"了七仔的Paddington Bear多時, 但一向只在那裡買寶礦力, 不容易儲到stamps. 告知友人們幫忙. 哈, 第一隻! 多謝哂yellowline! (另某網友也告訴我留了一隻給我, 嘩, 好開心!)
今天去了看楊德昌的"獨立時代", 兩小時的電影, 非常多對白. 很不錯.
一點筆記:

~ 1994年的電影(獎項)
~ 極多對白, 都非常精彩, 幸而有字幕
~ 第一幕 ~ "人生是為了緣份"
~ "感情已經是種廉價的藉口,裝得比真的還像。"
~ 不正常都當是正常
~ 被第三者加入是"分裂我的領土"
~ 對人好, 外表和善可人, 就被人說是裝出來
~ 明明是狐狸, 卻四處假裝是好人; 裝出來的人, 反而都是立心不良
~ "你的電視節目, 我的小說, 一早已背道而馳" (分居後男人對女人說)
~ "你越是氣憤越要裝傻"
~ 一夜情後男人竟然是說個不停的那位, 這幕令人啼笑皆非
~ A Confucian Confusion ~ 儒者的困惑

Saturday, April 26, 2008

Love Art @ Arts Centre

前陣子在這裡介紹了Banksy的藝術, 想不到這個星期竟然可以在香港親睹他的作品.

Love Art展覽除了Banksy的作品外, 還有Damien Hirst, Keith Haring, Romero Britto及Mel Ramos的作品.

於藝術中心的Love Art展覽至本月廿八日. 而Banksy更多的作品會於本月廿九日起於中環奧卑利街21-31號少勵畫廊(Schoeni Art Gallery)展出至五月十三日.

幾段分享

(1) 隨心隨意買了本素黑的"這樣愛, 很好", 談到喜歡上一個人又未得到時:

"戀愛對象存在的價值: 重點不在對方是否在身邊, 而是其存在的本身已經是你的福氣, 讓你活得更積極更有意義."

"心亂時, 學習轉化能量, 感謝對方讓你有掛念和愛慕的機會和勇氣."

對. 有這樣的一個對象存在本身已是一種幸福.

(2) 在網上看到一段:

"The best way to get the inspiration you need in your work life, love life, or in your personal growth is to watch someone who is living the life you think you want, in action. Learning more about how they do what they do will either provide you with a useful blueprint, or help you see that maybe that's not the path you really want to go down after all."

觀察他人的生活作藍圖, 可能會發現, 其實自己一直想過的生活究竟是什麼一回事... 又或, 其實根本不是真的想那樣.

(3) 剛看了一會吳宣倫博士說到反對胚胎幹細胞, 提到聖經一段:

"風從何道來,骨頭在懷孕婦人的胎中如何長成,你尚且不得知道;這樣,行萬事之 神的作為,你更不得知道。"(傳道書11: 5)

Friday, April 25, 2008

Jung Typology Test

去年在這裡都介紹過Carl Jung(容格)的十六種性格.

想知道自己屬於哪一類可試試這個Jung Typology Test, 有七十二條問題.

我是INFP ~ making life kinder and gentler.

Your Type is INFP
IntrovertedIntuitiveFeelingPerceiving
Strength of the preferences %
22126222

Qualitative analysis of your type formula
You are:
  • slightly expressed introvert
  • slightly expressed intuitive personality
  • distinctively expressed feeling personality
  • slightly expressed perceiving personality
INFP Profile

Jung Career Indicator for INFP
(famous people of this type: Princess Diana, Michel de Montaigne, J.K. Rowling, Anton Chekhov)

The Portait of the Healer (INFP)


Relationship: Women and Romance - Idealist Women

看到幾句:

Healers are found in only 1 percent of the general population, although, at times, their idealism leaves them feeling even more isolated from the rest of humanity.

Healers come to see themselves as ugly ducklings.

They interpret their visions in the world of music, art, entertainment, or dance.

Thursday, April 24, 2008

追男仔

繼續友人答問... 從男人角度看"女人怎樣追男仔"...

追男仔其實好易

dress得起眼 open D 比個清新look 就得

見都男仔俾多D微笑
可以用問問題嘅方式嚟引佢注意

可以主動交換 email msn
msn 係好好嘅communication medium

A Thousand Years of Good Prayers 千年善禱

導演Wayne Wang(王穎)的新作. 較為大家熟識的應該是1993年的"喜福會"(The Joy Luck Club)吧.

電影改編自李翊雲(Yiyun Li)的同名小說.

電影主要圍繞年老的父親遠赴美國探望離婚的女兒. 故事描寫他逗留在女兒家的短暫日子.

故事人物不多, 對白亦不多, 節奏較慢但不悶, 讓觀眾有思想的空間.

兩代的分歧, 不同文化及人生經歷的影響, 加上兩父女多年沒見面, 相對有時是無言. 女兒離婚, 作為父親的當然擔憂, "他怎麼這樣待你?!" "他有外遇嗎?" 原來是女兒離開自己的丈夫, 愛上了另一個有婦之夫(不過其妻卻在俄羅斯). 新一代的關係, 上一輩又哪會明白.

父女二人相對的時刻都是晚上共膳時, 父親遠道來訪, 女兒卻沒有告假陪伴. 女兒下班回來, 父親都準備一桌的飯餸, 兩個人根本吃不完. 幽默又令人共鳴的情景有: 父親總愛改動女兒房子的擺設, 在門外加個小掛飾; 讀了有趣的新聞又想和女兒分享, 把大大張報紙貼在廚房牆壁上.老人(Henry O/區亨利)戲份較多, 亦頗多獨腳戲. 許多內心戲都比對白更能觸動觀眾. 一個人在異鄉, 除了準備晚飯外, 日間便出外走走, 到公園找人聊天. 從伊朗來的老婦成了知音, 雖然言語不通, 你一句我一句也令人安慰.

飾演女兒的Feihong Yu(俞飛鴻)也演得不錯.

電影值得一看.

電影及小說名稱來自古訓《增廣賢文》: "百世修來共船渡, 千世修來共枕眠". 電影中女主角對俄羅斯男友說了這句. 他倆或許就是沒有做夫妻的緣份了.

於西班牙的San Sebastian Film Festival四個獎項.

IMDB連結
Variety Review

釣魚

昨天把meebo的icon換上右邊這個nataliedee公仔樣, 友人連忙送我一首無聊英文打油詩, 被他氣結.

不過釣魚這個活動/行為又頗令人細味.

其實釣魚的人是為了得到魚獲抑或只為享受等待的過程?

等了又等, 會否魚餌掉了也不知道?

又或其實等待又期待時, 看著身邊發生的一切, 或美好, 或出乎意料之外的事情, 那感覺比釣不釣到魚更重要呢?

釣魚. 其實真正用魚餌去釣魚也只試過一次. 那是九年前和家人去馬爾代夫旅遊散心時釣的. 我那次釣到一條頗巨型的東星斑!

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

追女仔 (part two)

上文... (繼續由男性好友解答)

提問2: how to deal w/ 麻煩 lady, such as those like... who likes doing things on the spur of the moment? (有些女子很麻煩, 喜歡即興, 又愛鬧情緒, 一時東一時西...)

咁有兩個極端以唔一樣嘅approach...

1. 極主動
約佢之前諗好多idea出嚟比多D option佢揀。
多D cold call。(cold call??)
時間地點做咩唔重要。要見到佢為止。
俾佢揀但係唔俾佢扭擰。
慢慢再(觀)摩佢嘅喜好

2. 極被動
消極並唔係唔work嘅 。以時間換取空間。
平時減小其他活動。隨傳隨到。增加見面機會

Part Three再續...

Hong Kong's dress code

有感近日文思乾塘, 身心皆有點疲. 不想悶壞上來捧場的朋友, 於是想到這個好主意, 就是邀請好友執筆, 一舉多得. (一個字: 懶. 請勿抗議)

那天電郵七友叫她們參與, 並歡迎她們的另一半也可幫忙. 怎知第一個"交稿"的竟然真是某位的另一半.

其實大家都讀過他的文章了. 就是數月前有份寫福岡遊(英語版)的男士. 這位仁兄乃大家閏秀的先生.

題目都是他自己起的.

One of the first things I noticed when I got to Hong Kong was how much better most of the Hongkies (no offense intended) are dressed up. However, the thing that baffled me was why my friends would fret about having to dress up even if it was only going down to the supermarket. The generally accepted dress code from where I come from was a tee shirt, shorts and slippers. You can even get away with these if you were going to the mall.

The rules, seems to be very different in Hong Kong. There is a minimum of what you need to wear when going out and slippers are definitely a big NO, NO (unless you look gayish and the slippers are Gucci). So until I exercise till I have a six pack and bulging biceps, wearing slippers to the malls in Hong Kong is a big NO, NO for me. After living in Hong Kong for the pass few years, I come to appreciate that my friends were actually looking out for my best interest by insisting on the way I dress up in public over here. Because, apparently most people in Hong Kong are judged by the way they dressed. People tend to be more polite to you if you are wearing the right kind of clothes and carrying the right kind of bag.

In fact, it could be quite embarrassing if you were not dress appropriately in Hong Kong. Just ask the hundreds of youngsters who dress with MK (Mong Kok) looks who are being asked for their ID cards by the police daily.

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

追女仔 (part one)

在twitter上與網友閒聊, 我說做男人好, 因為男追女不難. 有男網友非議, 叫我寫一篇大全. 我又不是男人, 不如找個頗多經驗的男性好友幫我寫好了.

我作了點提問, 給他一個範疇, 是關他說"費事離題比你(門小)啦"(我說: 俾我XXX... 你預咗架啦)

1. how to approach a pretty lady, what if she rejected u a few times...

靚女拒絕追求者係佢地嘅"條件反射" no problem!
但係佢地都有弱點
靚女通常得罪人多, 多仇家, 容易因俾人講兩句閑話就hurt到
大可以捱下義氣, 做佢嘅出氣袋
個point係, 比佢講多d野你聽
佢仲理你, 即係ok, 仲有friend做
咁要放長線, 做住friend先
多D communication
"知己知彼"

喺佢最低落嘅時後, 你嘅chance就最大
當時, 你會最容易接近佢嘅
Part two陸續有來...

偷聽他/她的心

近來偶然也會參與在twitter的strawpoll. 不過上面這個卻沒見過. 問題是:

If you could read the minds of one gender (think Mel Gibson in What Women Want): men (1) or women (2) ?

58%都揀女人. 我也會揀女人.

因為男人想什麼不太難猜到, 女人想什麼卻是非常難的事.
男人, 看一看他們的眼神, 幾乎都出賣了他們的腦袋. 不過有時即使是只從msn或電話都可以估中他們八成! 女人, 高手啲... :)

Monday, April 21, 2008

Things to do before...

什麼死前要做的XXX件事情, 生前要到訪的XXX個地方, 實在多不勝數. 隨意在網上遊走也見到:

1000 things to do before you die

20 Things Not to Do Before Starting A Business

5 Sexy Things to Do Before Sex

Ten Things to Do with Your Child Before Age Ten

Single-Girl Things to Do Before You Marry

Forty Things To Do Before I Turn Forty

10 Things to Do Before You Leave Home

50 Things To Do Before You Graduate

10 Most Incredible Things to Do Before You Die

Things To Do Before Making A Will

10 Things To Do Before You Are 50

My 50 things to do in my lifetime

5 things to do before quitting your day job

The Best And Worse Things To Do Before And After Lunch

10 things to do before 10:00am

適合bloggers的:

11 Things Before You Publish


5 Things for Bloggers To Do Before Dying

係咪應該都寫吓:

~ 奧運開幕前要準備的一百件事情
~ 接火炬前要作的十樣心理準備
~ 名人公開道歉前要作的十樣準備
~ blog諗唔到寫乜的一百件對策
~ 對付麻煩網友的十個好方法
~ 沒有XXX的日子第XX多天可以做的一百件事情

無聊

有時半夜三更唔瞓覺有咩好玩?

一堆買咗未用嘅化妝品都可以玩一大輪架...

(呢篇擺明呃食/位)

Sunday, April 20, 2008

Comfort Food

紅色暴雨之後又來黑色, 有打傘等於沒有打傘. 本來約好了七友聚, 最後都取消了. 滂沱大雨最好都是早點回家. 於是跑了去買點食物回家.

是晚活動之一就是吃, 吃, 和吃.

Saturday, April 19, 2008

Beneath the Rooftops of Paris 巴黎屋簷下

"Les toits de Paris"可說是今屆電影節最喜歡的三齣之一, 亦可說是最欣賞的其中一齣, 雖然電影令人看得有點愁.

電影首段最精彩之處是, 它成功地拍出氣味, 就是幾乎令觀眾嗅到畫面上的每一件物件及人物一樣. 炎夏的汗酸味泳池的氯氣味洗澡時的肥皂液香氣、老人家的氣味、少女散發出來的氣息... 每一種氣味都被影像化.

一齣關於年老的電影, 歲月的流逝當然令人唏噓令人愁, 導演及編劇Hiner Saleem把這種愁拍得十分精彩. 淡淡的滄涼卻很美很動人.

電影的拍攝手法都著意細膩, 尤其是上半部份. 一個個令人難忘的鏡頭: 天台上的巴黎景色不時作間場; low angel從樓房梯間往天窗上望; 少女把玩吸毒男友生前送她的閃閃發光外套, 倒影在門上; 兩個老人家的親熱戲; 又長又暗又孤單的走廊; 少女模仿老人說其兒子可以用耳朵聽到自己的心跳...

電影節奏很慢, 但又不至於悶. 是攝影及電影的味道勝於一切. 場景不多: 老人的家, 泳池, 女子的家, 數個戶外景及餐廳等. 故事亦簡單, 對白很少. 歲月不但摧人, 人到了最終難免要面對孤單無助寂寞. 每天一起相伴去游泳的老友說要離開法國, 老人家一次又一次當作聽不到. 有兒子等於沒有兒子. 要見兒子一面要自己親自去探訪他, 最無助的時候, 兒子不會在身旁. 不過老人又永遠以兒子為榮. 紅顏知己偶然過來探望, 她卻也有個九十三歲高齡的母親要照顧. 老友最後真的離開法國, 老人獨自去游泳, 感覺是多麼寂寥淒涼. 然後紅顏知己工作的酒吧結業了, 少女工作的雜貨店也結業了, 人去樓空, 自己一天天老去, 外面的世界也天天在轉變. 又然後, 下雨下雪想關窗的氣力也沒有, 沖涼的氣力也沒有... 長長的走廊, 孤獨的走廊, 越來越昏暗, 越來越難走.

慶幸是, 紅顏知己帶給老人無限安慰. 原來人老了, 可以出外走走看看, 在城中穿穿插插已是賞心樂事.

電影是帶點愁. 年老就是不只一點愁.

喜歡電影首尾呼應. 第一幕, 紅顏知己跑去買冷氣, 是炎夏. 最後一幕, 紅顏知己跑去買暖爐, 是寒冬. 抱著暖爐的她, 臉上掛著笑容, 帶著愛帶著溫暖.

電影把年老的愁拍得很美.
IMDB連結
Variety Review

佢真係好cute囉!

咪就係Giant Goldfish Grahams - Chocolate囉! 哈哈!


















其實味道就唔係非凡架啦, 不過個樣足以令人開心好一陣子.

行人須知第一二課

你試過被人捉唔睇交通燈過馬路未? 幾年前我返工就被人捉過一次...

"小姐, 我企喺度你都過?!" 非常沮喪地被迫拎張身份証佢抄... 後來收到封告票, 寫咗個appeal, 罰咗幾百蚊, 算好彩.

前幾日返工, 兩條馬路有近十個交通警喺度派傳單, 嘩乜咁誇. 第一次見. 大家收過未?
知唔知原來"在行人過路處上逗留長於橫過行人過路處所需的時間"都係違例? 即係如果正常要行十二秒但你行咗廿秒都可能係違例... (英文: Remaining on a crossing longer than is necessary to pass over the crossing)

Friday, April 18, 2008

又男又女

看五師兄這篇"《假如我是男女》後記", 我也來一篇討論一下.

看了眾人寫的版本, 都是男bloggers寫得較多, 亦既攪笑又荒謬. 或許男人真的不太好做, 大家都希望/寧願做女人, 所以有這個現象? 記得有blogger曾在網誌sidebar攪了個poll, 問如果有下一世, 你想做男人抑或女人, 大部份都答女人, 不論本身是男是女.

網友的文章, 或多或少都看到大家對另一性別有點期望及誤解. 真是"Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus." 或許我們都需要這些期望及誤解才可以相輔相成, 繼續糾纏.

看看自己寫的那篇. 發現其實我們一直都在傳統的框框下成長. 好些對異性的標籤期望, 都是改變不了.

原來如果我是男人, 我會認為一定要主修一些實用一點的學科, 電影... 太夢想吧. 心理學可能實在一點, 不過要一定讀上去, 要做到專業為止. 現在做女人, 你要我投身金融界, 打死我也不願... 不過如果我是男人, 原來我會迫自己去做... 你說做男人多慘.

做男人唯一的優勢就是愛情. 不是麼. 這個又是受傳統思想影響. 我們的成長及教育, 令我們都一直認為女人不可作主動. 所以我會覺得做男人可以主動, 情場會較得意, 年輕時可更輕狂, 更多采多姿.

三個問題

又是看網友的文章找來的:

1. 童年時第一個回憶?
懂走路但仍用尿片時, 獨自走進廚房尋找奶樽(母親收了起來, 要我戒用奶樽)

2. 上次大笑的時候?
忘記了. 或許是電影節時看"I Served the King of England"吧

3. 上次為何哭了?
上星期連續兩天的喪禮

習慣

每天早上都修眉毛 ~ 那些新長出來只有0.5mm的

天天都化妝, 除非不用外出

睡前喝水 ~ 三份一杯

電影院位置 ~ 中前偏前左, 近路口位

公司email上班時長on, gmail一日兩三次, 其他accounts偶然一次

聽電話用左邊耳

打sms用右手拇指

揹袋用右膊

著襪 ~ 左腳先

戴隱形眼鏡 ~ 右眼先 (右眼用右手食指, 左眼用左手食指)

刷牙 ~ 左下排大牙先

沖涼搽梘液 ~ 先搽右手臂

飯 ~ 少吃. 晚上只吃兩啖, 一星期兩三次左右

麵 ~ 不太喜歡

意粉 ~ 不愛吃

肉 ~ 越多越好... 尤其是牛

雞 ~ 賣飛佛

甜品 ~ 人生意義其中之一

咖啡 ~ 差不多天天喝

早餐 ~ 不吃, 比平日早起床才吃; 又或偶然去吃brunch才吃有蛋的餐

鞋帶 ~ 綁了蝴蝶結除鞋時不會再解, 下次穿時亦不會再綁

不懂揸筷子, 揸筆方法亦不正確

化妝第一個步驟是眼部, 卸妝第一個步驟也是眼

沒有戴錶習慣

手機長校震機, 不愛任何鈴聲

不得不承認... 遲到是我改不掉的壞習慣(當然不時次次都遲) ~ 還有就是亂(不過亂中有序)

心太軟... 好心腸

Thursday, April 17, 2008

"我的牛肉 你的毒藥"

"食得越耐越好"

"咁耐無嘢食, 好慘"

"人生仲有好多嘢嘅. 好多人都無嘢食"

"你係有XX, YY喺雪櫃"

"... ... "

"唔食啫"

"XX... 好似係酒店cake shop件cake咁... 你可能成日行過見到佢... 不過可能成年都無買嚟食... 其實可能唔係咁難買到... "

"係我就借衫借錢都去食啦"

"haha! 唔係無錢買餅噃... 只係行過覺得佢幾好食咁... 但就係日日都係行過"

"我諗你個比喻麻麻"

銀色

農曆年後第一對買的鞋是那對銀色Converse(一百周年特別版系列). 沒想到本想買對黑色鞋上班, 最後又是買了一對銀色.

是意大利Fabio Rusconi的. 現在要買$2000以下的意大利鞋談何容易. 多個月沒有去京士頓街那間I.T看鞋. 上一次去是大減價, 千多元的鞋有很多. 是晚去逛, 都是新貨. 大部份都是三千多元的, 實在嚇了一跳. Lane Crawford的也不是大部份都這麼昂貴啊.

其實前晚去了Sole Town想找對便宜的... 可是只有兩對黑色平底鞋合心水, 一對沒有我的碼, 另一對, 試穿都腳痛... 無計.

買不到黑色, 銀色也好, 夠百搭, 只不過沒想過今年連續買了兩對鞋都是銀色吧.

Brisé 與 Cabriole

原來常把這兩個舞步混作一起.

Brisé [bree-ZAY] 法語解作broken, shattered. 看動作示範.
A small beating step in which the movement is broken.(ABT)
Fundamentally a brisé is an assemblé beaten and traveled.
懂芭蕾舞的知道assemblé是怎樣吧, 原來就assemblé加空中拍打雙腳及移動整個身軀.

Brisé volé [bree-ZAY vaw-LAY] 則是會飛的brisé. 看動作示範.
In this brisé the dancer finishes on one foot after the beat, the other leg crossed either front or back.

Cabriole [ka-bree-AWL]之前都在這裡提過, 感覺上很似Brisé, 但怎麼導師說的名稱不同呢? 原來這兩個是不同的跳躍. 很明顯那個assemblé字眼令我更清晰兩者的分別. 看動作示範.

導師說Cabriole通常是男舞者跳的多, 而Brisé則是女舞者跳的多.

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

近日心有餘而力不足, 沒有時間或心情寫, 都貼些東西上來娛樂一下.

Converse一百周年, 那天路經Harbour City, 便看了一會那個100 Years鞋展, 只有數十對. 一對年輕又免強算貌美的女子叫我替她們拍照留念. 這個bighugelabs.com的mosaic maker不可以攪個10X10格子, 只可以揀36隻... 不過又竟有些連結不成功. 算啦, 真的沒太多時間再弄了.
喜歡這幅畫, 兩個芭蕾舞者. Jigsaw效果又不錯.Bead Art effect(昨天那幅紫色花相):Warholizer:
同大家分享吓我facebook隻fluffy friend, 攞過一次獎杯咋:Cities I've Visited: