Things To Do Before...

看了加拿大及西班牙合作的電影"My Life Without Me"(2003), 由加拿大演員Sarah Polley主演. 一個廿三歲有丈夫有兩個小女兒的女子, 得悉自己身患絕症.

一天, 她寫下:

Things To Do Before I Die:

1. Tell my daughters I love them several times a day

2. Find Don a new wife who the girls like

3. Record birthday messages for the girls for every year until they're 18

4. Go to Whalebay Beach together and have a big picnic

5. Smoke and drink as much as I want

6. Say what I'm thinking

7. Make love with other men to see what it's like

8. Make someone fall in love with me

9. Go and see Dad in Jail

10. Get some false nails (and do something with my hair)

電影觀後感稍後再寫.

死前要做的十件事情, 好像許多書都寫過了(一百個要去的地方; 一百個要完成的事情... ). 不過想想她上面那十樣事情, 有些都很有意思.

Say what I'm thinking. 或許也包括對自己愛的人說出自己一直想說的話. 當生命快到終結時, 已不會計較輸贏, 得失. 沒有什麼不可以說了.