有關朋友的語錄多不勝數.喜歡這些(from thinkexist):
"A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words." 知道你心底裡那首曲的好朋友, 佳句!
"Friends are those rare people who ask how we are and then wait to hear the answer."
"One measure of friendship consists not in the number of things friends can discuss, but in the number of things they need no longer mention." ~ Clifton Fadiman
"True friends stab you in the front." ~ Oscar Wilde
"Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends we choose." ~ Tennessee Williams
"Friends are like bras: close to your heart and there for support." ~ haha!
"We're born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we're not alone." ~ Orson Welles
記得有一句語錄(忘記了原句, 這句也差不多"True friendship comes when the silence between two people is comfortable." by David Tyson Gentry), 好朋友就是那種, 兩個人相對默然不語也可以感到非常舒服. 哈, 不過我是那種不喜歡dead air的人, 我總要不停有交流, 假如大家都忽然沒有話題時, 我總會想辦法繼續下去. 你又有多少個可以默然不語又互相都感到舒服自在的好友?啊, 或許就是這句了"The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch swing with, never say a word, then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation that you ever had." 應該是soulmate了吧!
朋友, 我擁有的不算很多, 但也可說不少. 不過知心的其實不多.
七友是我的朋友中認識日子較久的一群, 見面都算頻密, 一年總有十次八次, 有時更多. 近乎無所不談, 但又總有"不能說的秘密"? :)
自三四歲時認識至今的好友也有一個, 現在也有見面. 又或msn上傾談. 不過你說我是否什麼也可以告訴她, 又好像不是.
或許性格影響吧. 不同的朋友, 可以和我分享不同的話題, 及秘密. 有時面對面又很難什麼也說出口, 我又眼淺... 所以有時可能在網上傾談時才更能暢所欲言.
朋友也是give and take. 自己有事想找對方. 到朋友出事時找我, 我也樂意幫忙安慰. 我不是戀愛專家, 有時也不算是個好的聆聽者, 不過多年來有些朋友失戀又總愛找我傾談. 當然自己失戀時也愛四出打電話給人訴苦啦. :)
我很懶約人, 所以有時都靠好友們主動, 才會相約出來談天. 可以維持多年, 實在不是易事.
當然見面多寡不代表對方有沒有忘記自己. 身在馬來西亞的好友便會忽然一個電郵說想起我, 很窩心.
也有些認識多年, 可能只同窗一載, 偶然一次見面又可互相傾訴許多心事.
說到底, 友情也像愛情, 除了努力維繫外, 也需要一份緣.
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